Guys, these days im dating a nepali girl, in her own will, whose husband is living in nepal for the last three years. I knew them after i came to US. he used to live next door when was living here with his wife. she still seems to be very good to her husband, but the funny part is,, she pauses me while having sex and receives calls from her husband at the same time,,,and again lets me start when she is done talking. I dont like her to receive anyone's call while having sex. it really distracts my concentration and pleasure. its very hard me to hold myself until she hangs the phone.  Specially when she talks with her husband, i just can start it again in the same pace.  Please suggest me what do i do to keep me up until she is done talking in the phone.

Thanks in advance for your suggestion.

y dont u do her when her husband doesnt call?

Morons who are tryin to act oversmart here...ask urself...what would ya do if a Girl approaches you for her sexual desire? Rather than Jerkin off every single hour, wouldn't ya  accept her proposal, Faggots???

Probably, Contour girl's got high level of female hormone, that's why she needs sex more than any other women. Well, Mr. C, what are you upto??? If she wants sex then juss hit her up like a nail bro!!! Don worry 'bout her Husband. I had same kinda situation a few years back in Nepal. I didn't give a shit about her husband. When her husband was out we used to have sex. Now, i don't have no contact with her and I'm alright.

"Sex without love is an empty experience, but as empty experiences go it's one of the best"

You have got a nice buddy. BUDDY WITH BENEFITS.Juss take the opportunity man! If she receives calls while havin sex is your headache then juss switch off the God damn phone .  . If she dont wanna do that then juss keep on  feelin her body until she's done talkin to her husband!(u knoe wt I mean!!!)

HIT HER UP, UNTIL HER HUSBAND TAKES THE RESPONSIBILITY. DO NOT WORRY.

PEACE

Sounds like the tables have been turned on a Man this time, should this story hold any truth. If it is true by any means, kudos to this Nepali woman. There are not a whole lot of Nepali women who can pull this one on.

Contour, You said she is serious about her husband..then what the hell you are doing with her? is she the last woman on earth ths why  you are hanging on her? or you are too lazy to find a nice  gal for yourself??  Hard to believe that a higly educated person is doing such  things and asks help for a no-brainer,obvious situation. I feel sorry for you bro. Leave her and reshape  your life ASAP beofore it goes  out of your hand. Goodluck

Spring. It is a free lay without having to pay for roses and nice dinners. I guess it is an altenative he chose to using his hands without thinking of the consequences of it. Like they say, live and learn. And he sure is learning. Jai Nepal.

Btw this posting just made my morning.

I think Contour is just trying to inform us that these days, thinks like this do happen and we all should be prepared to handle it. may be not the way Contour handled it, but just a awareness to everyone in his expense

Symbolic,

Her husband calls 3-4 times in a week, meaning she receives 3-4 times his calls....We cant just wait until he calls then only start having sex. So, that seems little impossible.

Casino,, you have motivated me brother....feeling like i have someone who can understand me very clearly. Thanks.

Anamika, if you are a girl living far from your husband for a long time, and if you came across a boy that you like very much...please meditate a lot to control yourself....all i want to tell you is there are many things in life that you have to take seriously and in a very pragmatic way...life is not something that resembles to your "slow motion day dreaming" nature.

Spring,,,,,, I know she is serious about her husband,,,but at the same time she wants to have sex with me. I dont know what im doing with her. she comes to my room when im alone....we just start kissing each other and everything happens just like that...dont tell me to leave her, coz i cant move my apartment just because she is having sex with me....its not me who is chasing her. she comes to me every evening after work, she cooks,,she have sex with me..she herself says me not to worry about anything and just have fun......dude why do i run away from her?

PLEASE GUYS,,DO NOT CALL ME MORON OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT.....Im just fucging a girl as any other boys. as i said i used to go club and pick girls most of the time...i hate to fuc* mother of two kids, Black, mexican...but still i used to do so....now im having sex with a beautiful nepali girl...i dont need to wander in night clubs these days...im saving huge amount of money also...so I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HER AT THIS MOMENT JUST BECAUSE IM NOT HAVING FUN HER TALKING TO HUSBAND WHILE HAVING SEX.   Thanks a lot to those who has put their thoughts in a practical way.  To those who has called me a loser...look at yourself...and think how do you feel when you masturbate in bathroom dreaming about a girl living next door? be more practical you Gentlemen.

 

Bored, you do not know what his thoughts and motivations were when he posted this message. Maybe it was just a cry for help or done out of desperation. I am sure quite a number of Nepali women have read this posting but none replied to this posting. I am thinking it is possibly because of the nature of our culture. But the dude needs to realize that there are Nepali women readers like me who clicks on Kurakani couple of a times a day and have been a fan of Sajha for the last few years. And I am going to give him the reality check he needs from a woman's perspective that might help him realize what he is really doing here.

After all this dude is lying in his lover's bed, in her bedroom. Yet he has the galls to say what and how she should do things. WOW. Where is this dude from? Dude if u want to do her, take her to your apartment or to a hotel. That way you can set THE guidelines. But don't say what you like and do not like in her premises, that is her space. She is entitled to anything she wants. So grow up. I guess he thought he was going to have a cake and eat it too. But alas he was disappointed coz she talked with her husband during love making. Contour, you are already doing a shameful thing by screwing the wife of a Nepali friend/ acquaintance, betraying his trust. I just wanted to let you know that.

AND

always remember there is such thing as Karma!!!!!!!! As you say you have been in the US for sometime, I am sure you have heard the saying that what goes around comes around.

Contour, man! you are one of a kind. If so then why the heck you are in your so called moral dillema??  if she is doing everything for you and you, too, enjoying it then why the heck this moral dilema drama drawn to here?   I ,along with others said what is morally correct thing to do ..mind you you asked  for that . But  we are just wasting our time . HAVE FUN AT YOUR OWN RISK!!

Anamika,,,Im sorry you read me clearly first. I never go to her apartment..she comes to me...she cooks for me..if im cooking,,she helps me...sometimes she takes shower in my apartment and comes out wet holds me from back when im cooking and all that stuffs. well...i think i have explained enough....now read me clearly and suggest please if you want to...

Contour. Just enjoy her as she is enjoying you. Just stay with the moment if that is what you enjoy. And good luck in coming with an amicable point with her. BUT do tell her that one Nepali woman is cheering her up.

This is my two cents. Sorry could not help you more in this one. But I surely will tracking the replies to your posting.

Amen. Geez now have to get back to work.

Oops I meant to say  .... to come to an amicable point which serves you both well and not with an amicable......My bad.

Thanks anamika,,at least you also understood my pain....see, im also at work right now,,,its distracting me too...Please dont take me wrong..some more suggestion could help me out to soothe my pains down. Thanks.

The title of "..Moral Dilemma.." is not in line with the help as described in the body the subject is seeking.

Contour! right now you are high on the universal drug called "S-E-X" and so is that nymph. That is to say both of you are equally culpable of the deed. This relationship you are having right now is like the Bermuda Triangle that is very difficult to come out of once you enter. If people  (both Nepali or Non-Nepalelese in your social circle) come to know of this illicit affair, it might seriously spoil your reputation and even your career could be in jeopardy. Therefore, give it some serious thought and decide for yourself which direction you wanna take it to.

If you decide to forsake it then you could do that by replacing her with a nice unattached woman. The world is full of unmarried women.

But if you decide to continue I do not have much suggestion on "..Please suggest me what do i do to keep me up until she is done talking in the phone.."
I guess she could turn off the phone (assuming she carries a cell phone) while at it or find a time to kick it when there are no/fewer phone calls.

Good luck and do what feels good for you.
Bless your stars man!

Contour,
There's nothing wrong with you and hence NO dilemma. All of those who're saying you're loser are the ones who grew upon with Hindi movie's morale, unrealistic and superficial values, mostly taught by their ignorant parents.Many of them are still holding on to those values and jacking off even in the US.While they think Western Value is nothing but mere Britney Spears and MTV, they do not hesitate to rape and sell their country, lie, be bloody corrupt and kill for power and wealth, hence making a society of close minded and leg pulling mentality.
If a woman voluntarily comes to you and offer you sex, there's nothing wrong with it. You did what every man should do, I mean if you live in real world. Living away from spouse for a long time can be hard, so it's not only her who's having sex other than her husband. I bet there are many more.It's just the beginning. Our women are realizing that there are more options than being "Satya Sabitri" and the future is wide open for them. It's ironic that our culture loves to adapt to Western good, education and luxury, but the "morale" becomes an issue.It's a package tour, take it or leave it.
When 2 grown up people have sex, what is your problem? Why do you need to know their story?
God damnit, leg pulling and back biting Nepali value. Who gave you the right to be a morale policeman?
My 2 cents

Common brother, u got to think smart. Just think how would you feel if somebody else comes to your house and have S@X with your wife. How would you feel is one of ur neighbor or your fren comes to your house everyday while you are gone and have fun with your wife????

What comes around goes around as well what goes around comes around too. So u better think abt ur future. I wont be surprized if somebody will be banging ur wife and you will find out that ur wife is happy with other guy rather than with u. U will be in moral dilema  in that situation too.

I hope I wont be that guy brother...But if am....I am sorry in advance......

Rewire, Yes that is what i exactly taking it. my only problem is to wait until she is done with phone at the middle of the sex. Since im not having "the fun" im looking for, i doubt in her part too. if i were about to offer her to be my wife, i would already smashed her phone up,,,i cant touch her cell phone coz i dont want to impose her my right over.

Balbahadur,,,you are right at some point of my feeling. When i go back to my apartment i also feel the same. I also remember "what comes around goes around", repeat that many times. I also put myself in the situation where somebody else is banging my wife and think about what would i be going through at that situation. But, you know what brother, when she comes near and start rubbing on me...i cant step back. Thanks anyway.

 

Balbahadur, what comes along with you, spoils everything man. I know you are a genuine Maoist and I think your area of expertize is rather to copy and paste the Maoist propaganda in Sajha and highlight the politics of Bhata and Dyangdung. How come you appear in this serious discussion of social and cultural issues? Don't you see how politely and seriously people are discussing in this thread? Please think twice before coming into every posting of Sajha with your YCL-colored approach. YCL are YCL wherever they be (even in USA).

tero bau aama le k sapana sajako cha hola hai ta batA? USA aaye ramro job vayo vandai ma life ramro cha vanera na soch na... aafai herena aafulai ta katy dukhi chas..yedi ta khushi bhako vaye yo sajha ma aayera kina runchas? aafu ramro navaan aaru lai ramro bana!