Why the Nepalese girls are excited and hurried to share a room with her boy friend as soon as she comes to US in her Boy friends place.
Note that those girls who are ready to share a common room with their boyfriend here in US were even not ready to share a single kiss back in Nepal for years of love affair.
Why is this happening?
Is it a good transformation? Have your say!!

Sori babe Pra, U r not my type,,,

I pity on ur kinda girl,,,

So stop bitcin
-peace-

You are not anybody's type. May be you are guy's type. What do you think?

What the hell? you guys can go sleep around with as many people as you want, and you expect different from your girl? What kind of double-standard bull shit is this? Every person has a right to live their life as they please be it a boy or a girl. So stop passing judgment on other people when there are -god only knows -what kind of skeletons in your closet.
Live and let live!

What a nonsense question? Have you found your gl friend lesbion? If she is not, better stay with her. You will find a happy home in this strange country.

Ok one sentence for da topic ans:D

In Nepal, Ppplz are called Nepali and now that Nepali comes to America its called Neprican.
Jasto desh usthai Besh.

Okay lets think that sharing a room is not a big deal among boyfriend and gal friend but what about changing boyfriend after sharing a bed for 1 or 2 years ?

sillygirl and pra,
As I said before, girls might find themselves in some problems later for some decisions that may not be wise. I have seen this quite a few times. People just should not jump into such decisions. I know this friend of mine who was in relation for 2 years and after that she and her bf started living together. It was then that she realized, he was a jerk.

She came to me...."I gave my everything to him....and started crying..."

The aftermath was pretty sad for her. She went into depression and I had to help her out. She would not have felt that bad had she not lived together with him. So, I am not saying girls should not be with their guys or the guys should not ask girls to live with them. All I am saying is do think in a rational way rather than just craving about physical satisfaction...

And more, living together should not necessarily mean having physical relation either. So, there should be further consideration out here....

Adios...

I can't imagine why Nepaliboy111's simple enquiry is being blown out of proportion in here!
He's asking a simple question! What do we all think about a Nepali girl sharing a room with her boyfriend ( or a Nepali girl living with her boyfriend and sharing her bed with him ).
We, Nepalese, no matter how hard we try are different than the yanks culturally! Regardless of how hard we try to copy and enforce ourselves to live like the yanks, the aftermath of a breakup might be devastating as bibas pointed out!
Sillygirl, you're misunderstanding what's being asked in here! Nobody's asking if it's ok for a girl to have sex with her boyfriend! Love making is a part of a relationship and in this modern era, nobody gives a damn about virgin wives ( unless the guy's a sick moron ). The thread asks if it's good for a girl to live with her boyfriend and you've said that if a guy can do it then why can't a girl ( correct me if im wrong ). Let me ask you this, if you broke up with your boyfriend ( after living with him for a year or so ) and your prospective hubby to be ( be it a Nepali guy living in Nepal or here in the U.S. ) came to find out about it, do you think that he's gonna accept you as his wife? Do you think that a girl is gonna reject your ex=boyfriend who you lived with over a year after knowing that he lived with you for that long?! No! That's where we boys get the upperhand in the unfair and unjust Nepali society.
Understand what I'm saying?

To my understanding, the thread enquires if it's a good idea for a Nepali girl to live with her boyfriend and share the same bed in stead of living with few other Nepali girls and continuing a relationship at the same time!

In my personal opinion, a girl and a guy living together before getting married is asking for trouble unless the relationship is deep ( only god knows how deep though ). The outcome could be devastating, especially for the girl if she happens to be a Nepali. It's not a massive task for a guy to "dump" a chick that he had been living with and moving on but for a girl, it's a big ordeal. Plus, I feel that it's more fun to go and see my girlfriend for a few hours every day and having had to return back home ( which ensures that there's no boredom involved and willingness to see the significant other is always fresh ). After all there's the thing called "marriage" after which I have all the time in the world to get bored but surely not before getting married!

Anyways, that's what I felt about this thread! Feel free to disagree or agree w/ me- it's your choice. But I wanna repeat myself again! It's not a big task for a Nepali guy to dump the girl he's been living with for quite some time and moving on, but the aftermath of a breakup could prove not only devastating but Costly as well ! IF a girl were to return back to Nepal after coming off such relationship ( involving living together ) and if
the people she knew were to know about it, then her life would be in jeopardy, thanks to you guessed it right- the suck Nepali society! Therefore, it's always a wise idea to have a relationship in stead of "living together" as it could prevent us from lots of hassles in our future lives!

It seems yesterday yesterday that wonderful thing in my life happened . All of us were having splendid time of our life in nagarkot after Passing our boards.Singing,dancing,bornfire,eating you name it. We were free, young and in nagarkot(WINK).Then me and my so called best friend decided to sideline for a while . Yes again , we were young ,tipsy and happy. She kept on talking about life,family,dream job and so on. I kept on looking at her moving lips. OMG shes my best friend,from where aj earth i am getting these feelings. I shook my head,looked at the twinkled star but again my eyes straight went to that pinkish,juicy and moving lips. I tried to keep myself in check and she kept moving her lips and finally the moment inwarded. I could feel the lava ready to erupt and my heart was pounding . I grabbed her hand, pulled towards me and holdED her hair then started K-I-S-S-ING.Passinate,Vigourous and termed as wild. My first kiss breached the distance between friendship and the love.Well i guessed we both were waiting for this moment.

Like and old chinese proverb.Kissing is like drinking salted water: you drink and your thirst increases.Then we started kissing everywhere EVEN though PUBLIC affection display was considered as crime back home. We had our own ways kalo tempo, dance floor, darkness would help, most gallis. Yes we were two bodies but a soul. Then like rest of us i got oppourtunity to be in this alien land.

I am that sort of guy who can be manupulated easily coz i believe what is being said.I cant read any bodys mind and intention. I would do anything to anyone for everything. My roomates were good bad and ugly according to time and situation. I am not complaining about them, we came here to fulfill our dreams and hope we carry for our loved ones. People would try to achieve it by hook or crook. We were good roomates to start with but as time passed on , this american life style of keeping things private to yourself gapped our relationship.We tried to talk our heart out sometimes.After all we were there for each other in those defying moments of our life...In my opinion, firendship back home and here differs coz we have to survive and sustain by ourself financially,mentally and emotionally over here.
Then finally i decided to move out .Lets give a shot and live a life from another perspective.This move of mine turned out be blessing in disguise. Yes she got ticket to ride. Shes gonna be here. OMG i have to fill the empty walls of my apartment. Walmart,Target and ofcourse thrift store helped. I felt somebody i can trust would be living with me. I would smile for no reason, I would jump for no reason , I would not miss the mirror...............................To be coninued if i am not boring ya all.......I am heading to the lakes.

balabhadra, Thanx for you such a appreciable writings and Litratepool you are a good imaginator. Yes whatever balbhadra says is some what true for me. ITs difficult to get a virgin girl for you to marry. And LETS MAKE CLEAR TO ALL GIRLS THAT 99.9% of the BOYS you marry are not VIRGIN(And Now day Girls are also coming for the equality in this aspect). They already used to have a physical relationship with some other gals. So you don’t need to broke you heart even if you share a bed with your boy friend and later brake up with him. But you later life will definitely be in the
Influence of you previous relation and it depends on how you new partner take it.
Cheers !

Every time i open sajha, i only find the topic where it says girls do this, they do that. Whats up with you guys?? Don't you have anything else to talk about. Everyone has a right to live in his/her own way, so why is it being a headache for you?? And yea, please stop coloring it red for the girl's topic as loote has mentioned.

Let’s not bullshit around and have some wise discussion based on reality!

Both sexes (guys/girls) have to realize that women and men were not created equally by nature. No matter how modern or educated we become, we can not escape from the fact that we are just one of a kind of animal in the broad animal kingdom. Man was created as a provider/protector and woman was created as a nurturer/mother. That is why men are more testosterone driven, tougher bigger and aggressive whereas women are estrogen driven, softer smaller and delicate. One standard can not be applied when valuing two different creations. When calibrating flowers the beauty and purity counts and when calibrating a stem that holds the flower toughness and strength counts; so there is a double standard. If it comes to basic animal level, equality does not apply. When we are taking about physical relationship, it is purely an animal thing.

It’s our animal instincts that males want delicacy and softness in their females and females want toughness and muscleness in their males. When looking at the animal instincts level, being too sexually active can surely be associated with less delicacy, less softness and less purity (thus, for female it makes them less desirable to male) where as being too sexually active is can rarely be associated with less toughness (thus, for male it really does not affect on how desirable they are to female). Whether there is physical relationship or not, sharing room with boyfriend before marriage is being too sexually active. So, whether you like it or not, being too sexually active definitely hurts girls than guys. In the name of equality girls are making themselves cheap and being proud while doing it. How stupid is that?

We can not make two things equal when nature itself created them different. So, my suggestion is to live how the nature wanted you to live rather than discussing why that is so. Nobody ever can defeat nature and anybody who wants to go against nature will surely ruin themselves but nobody else.

Dear Khusi(and rest of all girls)
Well fo" ur difficult question I jus wanna gib u my simple answer, its becoz we guys want to put you girls in first priority, to solve each and every problem of urs as this is worldwide problem..thats why u and ur(not u whole guls) problem comes at first....but u girls nautanki.................................


TO BE CONTD.

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Wah Wah......

I felt like a story of a Nepali girl who just broke up from her boyfried after sharing an aprtment for couple of years and loosening things up a little bit(wink.. wink).

I think this thread is nothing but full of crap. Get a life guys n gals.

SAAB NEPALI KTI BHALU HO AMERICA MA AAUNE... SAAB LAI CHICKNU PARCHA ...
NEPAL MA JEANS PANI NA LAGAUNE , YAHA UNDERWEAR MA BEACH TIRA GHUMNE.. CHYAAAAAAAAAAAA KHATTAM BHAYE NEPALI KTI HARU ..

Punte, it is not full of crap. It is about how much change is good in the name of equality and in the name of being Amricanized. If your were to live with her boyfriend, would you take the subject lightly?

yakity yakk!!
and they say guys don't talk much!!
they sure do blab on NONSTOP about crap!!

So, you want guys to keep their mouth shut so you can babble.