Love four letter word  very hard to define ....especially in human being,....we always looking for relationship special friend beloved with whom we can share everything,...,..every one want love dan why its hard to find..? we saw some many good relationship came end due to some exteranal resason ? why pleople come closed and aprat ? I saw so many relation built and break,,,...

I really got confused ,,what is love

Infectuation

oneside love

two way

 

How come people eaisly come in to life and go far from thier life......

some people always waiting for their true love...some people got love bt they loose  their love ....

 

 

SIS what u trying to say...

I like your nice pic sis,
ask Mr. Sex for something non-vanilla, you will like it.

in response to the OP,
Love does exist, however its definition is different from person to person.

to some love is a smile, to others a laugh.
to some love is to dive into someones eyes, to others is one fleeting glance
to some love is a flower, to others its a garden
to some love is an eternal bond, to others a one night stand
to some love is a sip of wine, to others its whoever you end up with after one too many drinks
to some love is priceless, to others it is sold in the street
to some love is patience, to other it is betrayal
to some love is pain, to others its forgiveness
to some love is a sharp knife on ones wrist, to others its a tattoo of a special name

i could go on and list all i have experienced, heard and learned from others about love. but i think i should jump to what i really think it is:

its not eternal, nothing in life (not even life itself) lasts forever. like childhood, youth and age, love too will come and go. enjoy it while you feel it and dont look back if you dont, rest assured that it will come back to you in some other form.

Not really

I agree NightElf

Love is respect, to give smile, be patient  , forgive..i think this is the purest relationship in the word...than why people misunderstood each other....why they hurts other feeling,,,how come they choose another lilfe partner....is anyone can love one person and marry another person? Is that love....

 

WHy people playing with another feeling..?  why they hurts other and themselves........

There is nothing so called love. It is a waste of productive time.

for me as a man..i have experienced love once...still u try to be strong and try to understand the other person i have loved doesn't feel the same way about me...she doesn't want to hurt me..i want to protect her..provide her everything she needs...support her...be there for her night and day....when she is tired..find a good movie..for her...when she is mad...try to find a way to make her smile..she likes food...
she hurts me...but deep somewhere.. were both insecure..what will happen...will it last ....like everything else..in this world...love had to end...

he started to hate me...wanted me to go far away...and i did...she never called me..again..i didn't call her either...she is hurt...because of me..but i don't know why..
i am hurt because she is not with me...

she is in Irving..and i moved to Houston...still i feel lonely in this world without her..
she wanted to support me..but always made me realize that her family is more important to her than me.. which i always respected..

would i want her back in my life....definitely.
but...we'll see......bad things have happened to me..but when she came..my life happened...

birdman2

Sorry to hear that someone came to ur life and make  u hurt.. ..that what still I am not understanding how come somone come someother life...and behave  like they are doing everything..careing..love..and at certain point when u need their company they left...I saw so many such situation ..some say we broke by understanding what does it mean....

If they are going to spend some than why not that people who love them...

R they playing game ..to win ..

 

love do exist,  its like a music yeah.. - such listening good tune melody or playing a music outta a right  you know.. if you do to play that funky music loud off up to 60 decibel or more my freenzzz...  hey buddy....you know what that  mean....stay koooolll..

One can only understand themselves. He/She can only tell how much you loved from your end...how much you cared and how unconditional your love was towards the other party...but the other party may be thinking the same...However, true love is understanding how much the other person cared about you, how much he or she did for you and giving respect/ honor back to the person .

If you say...I loved that guy/girl but he/she cared about his/her family only and I still respect that but we are seperated  now because of bla bla bla....then you can see clearly see there was a problem in respecting each other's values. You both disagreed...and didnot respect each others value and hence are seperated. It may take ages to understand and accept this fact but if you do it quicker it may help you to gain your lost love. Doing this you will gain 2 things. Your lost love, and your respect/honor.

In true...if you love someone...you accept them with their values...with their morals, with what they are...you don't leave them until death does you apart! This is the true meaning of love.

There may be times when things maynot work out with each other and you may disagree to the thoughts that other party values most. There coudl be jealousy, trust issues, and so many more.....This is human nature. But understanding this and respecting each other's value will last your love forever and you never will have to complain against it. It is all on you...not on the other party.

"some people got love bt they loose  their love ...."
It's not LOOSE it's LOSE.

There are millions of successfull love story and  lots of  tragic love story ..we can define love with so many  ways and compare them ..l music..moon ..sun..river..forest...song of bird...bt in real scenario..in practical life. it is different....we saw so many people ruuning towards love...true love....

Recently I hear couple of my fren tragic story ..some of my fren lose  their Girl frn..some lose their BF...once year back they look they are happy ..and thought myself..why shouldnot i get such relation..Now when I foudn themselves struggling with their past relation ..I thought thanks God I dont have such situation...

If you could go futher than please dont start any relationship dont play with other feeling and emotion ..

 

the main purpose of this thread is ..not blame any one ..just be awre before fall in love ..befor hurts anyone...

OMG LOOSE re again...are u a pakhini me-sahara? "some loose theri BF" LOL what happened to your LOOSE  boy friend?? dimag loose bhayo ki kya ho? Anyway it's Lose not Loose

"Whatever is done for true love always takes place beyond good and evil."-Nietzsche.  I'd say this for only those who feel that there exists something beyond our mortal perception of "good and evil" as only you non-sheep would know or realize what love is and that it truly does exist!  Non believers can continue lolling around in the murkiness of deception and hatred.

-Ramen sans MSG

Man there is Love all around us.

U can't confine Love some with some mere definition.

And to answer one of ur curiosity, ya one can love someone and marry someone else, it is perfectly normal. I don't know who gave u the wrong impression that every Love should end in marriage.

Love is a feeling a lively experience while marriage is an institution.

And u don't have to limit your love to 1 person. If u have love in u then spread it, that is the best thing to do.

As our poet Madhav Ghimire wrote once :

"Aayera kahilei Rhitu Shidhhidaina

Laayera Maya Mutu Rittidaina".

SO don't worry about what u see go ahead to feel it. To be loved is the most awesome experience in your life so go get it and don't forget to spread it.

Take Care.

 

it does not exist. It is just an illusion .. driven primary by some selfishness (might be sex, money, future-security, .. etc.).

Do not get deceived !

Since 2010, I begin to think that it might exists ! Before that no place for it.

*tyetti dherai hindi love story movie haru herera pani love chha chhaina bhanera sodhne ho paapi? dhatt..