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 All Nepalese BOYS in the US are "BOKA"

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Posted on 11-06-07 8:31 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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All the Nepalese BOYS in the US are "BOKA". What do you think gals? C'mon, lets share your views. Just see the posts in sajha...."gal needed to marry", "gal needed to share apt", "my gf dumped me", "himani ko ...pic"... hareeeeeeeeeeeee!!!   
 
Posted on 11-06-07 8:48 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Women are looking for a husband like this, and see what happens even after they get the man they want.

Identity crisis

By Rekha Acharya

What do you buy for a woman who has everything? My close friend was celebrating her 30th birthday and I was in a fix. She has everything- a doting husband who showers her with diamonds and pearls, brilliant kids, luxurious house decorated in white and easy lifestyle. She goes to the gym, does social work, buys beautiful things for her house and comes home on time for her family. No wonder women envy her luck.

So, when I finally bought a gift and took the happy woman out for lunch on her birthday, I was quite disappointed. This quiet woman in front of me was neither happy nor glowing.

"I hate my husband." She told me and I stared at her speechless trying to think of why anybody would hate a man who gave her a diamond bracelet this morning and surprised her with tickets to Hawaii scheduled for next week.

She was one of those women whose desire to make their men happy is so strong, and yet whose self-worth is so low that they soon become a shadow with no identity. When she opens her mouth most often it is her husband's views, thoughts and even phrases coming out. She always wears blue because her husband says that she looks good in blue. There are so many such small things that had changed her life and changed her forever.

What did the dear husbands think in the process? "Life is good and we are a happy family. My wife and I have shared views and she really values my experience." Is that it?

So, if it is such a happy family with shared views, why are so many women after years of marriage starting to resent their husbands like my friend and probably like me in a few years? My friend has given the power to her husband to make her decisions like so many other women. In the long run, resentment and pent up desires surfaced. Wishes that had been buried for a long time started to take root and the woman started hating the one thing that had been the reason for her sacrifices-her husband.

A world renowned family counselor, Martha Hankinson suggests "Stop the resentment before it begins. Stop taking yourself for granted and be proud of who you are. Make small steps in regaining what you have lost. Don't lose your family in the process but let them join in the joy of discovering you".

But, my friend has not yet reached a place where she feels comfortable with herself maybe because she has been a 'nobody' for too long. It is scary for her to take her own decision and she feels lost many times. I am not sure about her feeling for her husband now. She is working on it and yes, she is looking great in white, black and orange these days!

Posted on: 2007-11-05 10:10:42 (Server Time)


 
Posted on 11-06-07 8:54 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Keta haru boka bhaye, keti haru bakhri.
 
Posted on 11-06-07 9:00 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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But still, gals dont show their so called bakhripan, in the open concerts...la! Boka always start dropping their saliva everytime, anywhere in the mamla of 'KT'.

Recently I got a big mail from one guy in Nepal, with attached CV,...proposing for marriage, whom I dont know. Also gone thro a sajha posting from someone 'krish' khulle-aam begging for a gal. Wat a stupid idea??   


 
Posted on 11-06-07 9:07 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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९९% नेपाली आइमाई सफल लोग्नेको जीवनबाट आर्थिक, भौतिक र शारीरक सुखको चाहना राख्छन र माथि रेखा आचार्यले लेखेको कुरामा त्यति धेरै सत्यता छ जस्तो लाग्दैन ।  धेरै केटीका आमाबाबु सम्पन्न परिवारको केटा खोज्छन र केटी त्यही कुरामा आफ्नो भाग्य देख्छन् ।विवाहको हनिमुन वर्ष पछि केटाकेटि जन्मेपछि प्रथामिकतामा परिवर्तन आउँछ । पछि बैवाहिक जीवनमा अपेक्षित लामो सुख पाउन नसक्नु अलग कुरा हुनसक्छ ।  हुनत यो कुरा हो कि मान्छेलाई जे कुरा प्राप्त भैसक्यो , त्यो कुराले लामो सन्तुष्टि पक्कै दिँदैन , उसले अरू अप्राप्य सुख खोज्छ । हुनसक्छ , असन्तुष्ट हुनुपर्ने कुराहरू अरु नै पनि हुनसक्छन् । तर सम्पन्नता भित्रका असन्तुष्टिहरूको प्रकार भिन्न खालको हुन्छ किनभने त्यहाँको जीवन र जीवनलाई अपनाउने तरिका नै विचित्रको हुन्छ ।

 

तर केटाहरू बोका हुन भने केटी बाख्री भएनन् त नि ? स्वाभावैले केटा जस्तो एक्सप्रेसिब केटी नहोलान् तर मैले देखेका बिदेशिएका नेपाली केटीहरूको वास्तविक चालढाल, चरित्र र व्यवहार कुनै बिदेशीको छाडापनलाई जित्ने खालको छैन जस्तो त लाग्दैन । तर थोरै सुसंस्कृत नेपाली चेली र चेला दुबैलाई भने मेरो  र सम्मान छ है ॥


 
Posted on 11-06-07 9:14 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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If we're all bokaas then y'all are all Khasiii. ha ha ha

Sajha.com is a meetin place for all khassiiis and boookaaas ha ha ha ha

 
Posted on 11-06-07 9:16 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Boka = KT dekhne bittikai aankha chimliyera pachi lagne keta

Bakhri = Keta dekhne bittikai aankha chimliyera pachi lagne KT

so I think I agree to what maichori has said. Guys are bokas

 
Posted on 11-06-07 9:20 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Sumedhu, appreciated! "Gals are not so aggresive and expressive as compare to boys".
 
Posted on 11-06-07 9:32 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Sudari i m soooooooooooo agree with ya.

 
Posted on 11-06-07 9:48 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Sabai jana boka chainan ni ho mai chori sundari ji.

Last edited: 15-Nov-07 05:01 PM

 
Posted on 11-06-07 9:50 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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 thank u thank u... chotila chotila comment aaunu paryo...!!
 
Posted on 11-06-07 9:53 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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यो ब्वाइज भन्नाले कति उमेर देखि कति उमेर सम्म को पर्यो कुन्नि?

बसि बसि भरौँ भने घैला भन्दा सानि

उठि उठि भरौँ भने कम्मर दुख्ने बानि, भएको उमेरको मात्रै कि अलि बुढो उमेर पनि हो?

 


 
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अंरिका मात्र हो र, संसार भरिका ठिटाहरु बोका हुन् नि कसो? खसि भयो भने त के ठिटा भयो र? एउटा कुरो नि।
 
Posted on 11-06-07 10:01 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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ho ho ma ek no ko BOKA ho kasle k garchha herau ta?

this goes to her:-)

Thank you bye bye OK
Timi Pathi ma Boke
 
Posted on 11-06-07 10:14 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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उमेरको हद-बंदी छैन , माल्दाई को उमेर चाहि कति रछ?  बुढा हरु झन सारो मातियेका र पात्तियेका हुन्चन नि ! बुढो बोको....hehe....
 
Posted on 11-06-07 10:17 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Mai chori sundari timle kina keta haru lai boka sanga nai compare gareko??
 
Posted on 11-06-07 10:19 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Hey Mai chhori Sudari ho ki Mai chhoro BOKO
how did u connect this thread with "My GF dumped me"? Any correlation? or just the topic made u think so? Lekhna bhanda pahila yeso bujhne gara hai
 
Posted on 11-06-07 10:23 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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jhilke daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa where have u been? daaaaa missing uuuuuuuuuu. Tihar aauna laageko belaa ma sis lai dekhera ni nadekheko jasto gerni kya. lovi da :P
 
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Posted on 11-06-07 10:28 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Oh Sani.....................how u doing?
Been looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong we r off connected....!!

Yestai ho hera na BOKA bhayepachhi bakhriharulai taha lagaunai parne.........fursad nai nahune

Aajkal bhane budhi bakhri sanga time bitdai chha mero

How abt you? Tihar ta aaunai lagyo ni hai

Lov uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu sis

 



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